How to get a girl to give you a blowjob.
How to get a blowjob from any girl you want.
How to make her want to give you a blowjob.
These are essential questions for a man when you have sex with your girlfriend or a new girl you just met.
The first rule of course is not to force a girl to give you a blowjob if she does not want to but you can make her want to give you one.
Especially that very often, women enjoy a cunnilingus but would do you the favor to do the same for you! 😉
There are many reasons why a girl would not give you a blowjob, either because she never even tried it or because she finds it dirty, too kinky, humiliating, etc…
They all have their reasons and every girl is different in sex so you need to try different tactics to see how to get this girl to give you a blowjob.
Nothing is bad in sex as long as each partner enjoys what he or she is doing, sex is also about giving to the other, you also have to do things to your partner even if you might not like it that much.
But you will please your partner which is the best reward you can get when having sex.
I do not really like the term “forcing a girl to do a blowjob”. Encourage her to suck you, it’s already better. Even better: invite her to give you a blowjob.
Many guys ask why so few girls suck or are ok to give a blowjob.
You don’t meet the good ones maybe.
So how do you make girls want to suck you? Well, let’s see how because it must not be the only guy who lack kisses on their glan… 😉
You do not force, manipulate, or order (unless the lady agrees… but that’s another subject) when it comes to sexuality. We talk about making love, we talk about an exchange, and not only desires in male sexuality.
The state of mind to have during a sexual relationship.
Sex, it’s done with two people (or more sometimes). Love is also between two people (minimum… but that too is another subject).
When we make love, officially, we are two persons, and each sexual practice is a contract accepted between the two partners.
Nothing is necessary, everything is proposed… in a more or less subtle way.
She does not want you to lick her, she does not want to let you do a cunnilingus? OK, no cunnilingus for madam. Do not be Harvey Weinstein…
She does not want fingers either? OK, no hugs to lead to orgasm, no fingering as preliminaries, some girls do not like it.
She accepts the missionary position, but no sex in doggy style? OK, it may seem odd, but again “what a woman wants, God wants.”
She accepts one or two fingers behind but refuses to open for sodomy?
Again, nothing to add, if she will not, do not insist despite your longing, despite the strength of your fantasies, even if at the bar she told you she loved it, even if on Tinder she had you said she was going to suck you and then you could sodomize her: a girl has the right to change her mind in terms of sexuality (and you also) (even if you can read my article, how to make a woman want to try anal sex)
In bed, it is her who decides, you can of course offer anything you want, but when it’s no, it’s no.
Now that you have integrated the notion of consent, that is, a contract between two responsible adults, let’s go back to our business, your desire to get a blowjob from her, whatever your reason for it.
Before you reveal the elements that can push a girl to suck you, I will tell you the four mistakes to avoid if you want a blowjob.
The four mistakes not to do when you want to get a blowjob from a girl.
These four errors range from the beginner error to the professional feeble error.
In any case: do not make those mistakes, thank you for them. (And for your dignity)
1.The error of the elevator.
Imagine that you are licking her on a bed. Imagine that you go back up, and that at the height of this erotic scene, you continue to climb, and climb again, and HOP, here is your sex to the height of her face! MAGIC!
But not a good idea.
Of course she can say yes or no, but a girl who does not want to suck you will find the procedure rude, and she will be right.
She could be shocked as it might be the first time a guy does this to her.
2.The mistake of pressing his head.
Believe me or not, my girlfriends and my mistresses always talk to me about it. I do not even understand how some guys still think that leaning on the head of a girl they kiss can make the girl want to suck a dick.
The girls’ head is not a buzzer of Questions for a Champion! 😉
3.The mistake of thinking that it will be reciprocal.
Because you lick her, you think she has to suck you?
Fellatio is like antibiotics: it’s not automatic.
Forget also the tirades “it’s normal”, “everyone does it”, “my ex sucked me all the time” to make the girl feel guilty.
During sex, one act does not necessarily lead to another, and cunnilingus to a girl does not give you the right to demand anything in return.
Forget any form of emotional blackmail, whether it’s for a one-night stand or a serious story.
4.Last mistake: the hierarchy of sexual practices.
Talking with girls, with some experience, we quickly realize that male sexuality, sex, fellatio: it’s cultural.
We do not all think the same way.
For many women, oral sex is intimate. Some girls are often up for sex the first night, no problem, but when it comes to sucking, there are not many people from the beginning.
Sucking a guy, sucking on the first date: it also can be “normal” for some women because everybody is different and you have to deal with each person differently then.
To finish this demonstration, a last example about some girls: sleeping with a guy they just met, it’s forbidden.
For some girls who just wanted to fuck, the guy found on Tinder two hours before does not sleep over.
Reason: “too intimate”, sleeping and sharing the night. To sleep with the guy, it’s OK, but to open their bed sheets: no way!
What I wanted you to understand is that everyone ranks their sexual practices according to their sensitivity.
Some girls will love to suck you up to orgasm with a crazy eroticism, others will open you all the doors without ever giving you a blowjob, others will only accept from behind pretexting the need to be virgin for marriage…
In short, you will understand: it is not because she is OK to sleep with you that she will accept your argument “Colme on, it is nothing but just a blowjob! You let me sodomize you but I do not even have the right to a blowjob?”.
Each one has hierarchy, each one has limits. Always respect the decision of women, and rather than push a woman to suck you, find out how to make her want to give you a blowjob.
How to make a girl want to give you a blowjob?
Some of these very good tips are also in other articles on this website, the best sex tips…
1. Cleanliness is the basis!
As you will learn, many girls had sexual experiences with guys a little dirty, not always clean, with a good smell of piss and sweat. haha
So, some girls might have been disgusted with oral sex and blowjob, it’s understandable…
Clean yourself, go to the bathroom before to having a “good surprise” for her when she will remove your underpants.
It may be that the girl is disgusted: talk about your cleanliness, talk about your hygiene, explain to her that you take care of your sex as well as your neck, your armpits, your oral hygiene.
Being clean is essential in sex and it’s the same for a girl also.
2. Silence on past performances!
Beware of negative words that come out of your mouth inadvertently!
Do not denigrate girls who in the past have been hurt you with their teeth, never criticize the sexual performance of your ex: it could stop any desire for the current girl to suck you, if she knows you’re going to talk after.
3. Encourage those who hesitate to go deeper with their lips.
All women who will take your penis in their mouth will not be experts, will not be all comfortable with the idea of fellatio or blowjob, or will not necessarily be technically gifted.
Your role is to encourage them, to distribute good points to encourage her, for the act, for the gift.
Your role is to give them a nice and constructive feedback to help them progress.
“I like it when you do that…”, “a little more of that, it was very good…”, “I love that you look at me when you take it between your expert lips…”.
Communication is the basis of sexuality!
For other women, the concern will not be the technical aspect but what they see as a “degrading” act.
If a woman tells you that she finds degrading for a woman to give a blowjob, you can tell her that:
“You’re kidding right, a woman is never as powerful as during a blowjob. I give you my sex, there, between your hands and your teeth. It is an act of total abandonment, of pure trust. I will never be so vulnerable as when you take it in your mouth. For me, this is one of the moments when we are the most connected you and me! During a blowjob, you dominate and control everything!”.
By reversing her perspective on blowjob and fellatio, explaining that it is not only “whores” who suck dicks, you should make her want to suck you more often.
PS: If she’s really narrow-minded, do not waste years trying to persuade her…
We end this article with 5 tips for her to enjoy more blowjob with you.
5 tips for her to love blowjob even more.
1 / Put her at ease physically!
In porn, girls are often kneeling on cold tiles while the man is standing.
Instead, invite them to enjoy your cock on the bed, lying on your back, while they choose the position they prefer.
(Some women also enjoy sex like in porn videos, love domination and will be happy to kneel before their master, do not deprive them of this pleasure.) Again, it is a question of communication, respect and consent).
2 / Watch out for porn excess.
Excess of porn: when a woman gives you a blowjob, you do not aim to break her mouth, to blow her tonsils, to play a remake of Deep throat.
If adult movie actresses are generally doing well and are comfortable with deep throats for the sake of their profession, not all women want to choke on your cock.
Go gradually, again, and communicate!
3 / Warn her before ejaculating!
Question of taste, texture question: not all women are happy to bring you to orgasm by sucking you, and they do not all appreciate the cum in mouth.
Rather than “Ooops! I did not see it coming… “, always the worst effect, warn the woman that you are soon exhausted and that you are about to lose control of your sexual arousal.
A simple: “it’s too good I’ll come” or “you are going to make me come if you continue” enough to get the message.
The most naughty will answer you “it’s my goal,” “make you happy,” “let yourself go.”
Communicate with her if you want to cum on her face, cum on her breasts, her belly, her ass: everything is discussed, everything is negotiated. But you must speak: nothing can be guessed, nothing is automatic.
One last point: do not take off suddenly when ejaculating, at the risk of coming in her eye. Not nice for her, it goes quickly and it can hurt. #true story
4 / Tip if you want her to swallow when you ejaculate in her mouth.
In the hierarchy of girls who suck, there are those who suck, those who suck and spit out, and those who swallow, goddesses who do the job well from the beginning to the end, who do not leave a drop and make your cock almost cleaner on arrival than on departure.
Unfortunately for you and your fantasies, this is not always the case for a simple reason: the taste of sperm is not always pleasant, and women do not like to “feel the taste of sperm” when they resume their day or when they go to bed after doing a blowjob.
Two solutions to that:
The first is of course the mouthwash, nearby, in your bathroom (or chewing gum, it works too) when they finished the blowjob.
The second solution is to offer a sperm with a better taste, and for that, fruit juices work miracles (especially pineapple juice and strawberry juice, which will sweeten and soften your seed, just like coconut milk or coconut water). Cig, asparagus, eggs, alcohol: the opposite, it gives a good taste to your sperm.
With all that, you’re ready for sex-rich fellatio! Whatever the libido of the girl, if you follow these tips, you should make her want to try a blowjob…
You can also play games with something sweet like Nutella, Whipped cream, Chocolate, jam, syrup, anything that she likes to eat.
If a blowjob is fun, she will enjoy it and even ask for it the next time! 😉
Girls like to have fun so make the blowjob fun for her and she will enjoy giving you one.
5 / To make her happy too, you can always offer her a 69 position…